By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Valentine's Day: Pressure for Perfection
Feb 14, 2014 9:17 am
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Valentine's Day is supposed to be about love and romance. It may be great pressure for gift buying and giving, and for doing things for your beloved.
In the... More
Dec 2, 2013 1:42 pm
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If you're in the doghouse, or you put your partner in the doghouse, I encourage BOTH of you to work on getting him/her out. I know this seems contrary to putting... More
Dec 17, 2013 8:47 am
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Okay, I'm getting tired of the awkwardness of writing him/her and s/he, etc. I am going to randomly write pronouns (and mix it up from post to post).
The Grace of Nelson Mandela: An Example for Couples
Dec 13, 2013 8:09 am
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The more I read about Mandela, the more I am impressed by his grace and humility. He initiated healing and connecting conversations with many people and organizations... More
I want to change my life . . .
Apr 25, 2014 9:00 am
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. . . and I'm finding it hard to do. I am scared, and realize that in some areas I am stuck in my ways. My husband wants me to change, too. Any advice?