By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Kids and Marital Satisfaction
Aug 12, 2014 4:43 pm
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"More than a hundred studies show that marital satisfaction falls off a cliff after the birth of the first child and doesn't get much better until the last child... More
"The Purpose of Sex"
May 9, 2014 1:17 pm
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Ashley Judd, in her memoir, wrote that Archbishop Desmond Tutu told her that the purpose of sex between married couples is "as an instrument of love and expression,... More
Why does She Keep Interrupting Me?
May 6, 2014 1:58 pm
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Interruption, or Bid for Connection?
Are you busy, working away, or engrossed in some project and your wife tends to come in and "interrupt" you with a detail... More
Dear Chandrama, Everywhere I turn . . .
Apr 21, 2014 8:32 am
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. . . these days there is talk of meditation. My partner is pushing me to take a class. What's the deal?
While people have been meditating... More
Marriage last 40 or 50 years?
May 16, 2014 3:53 pm
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What do we need to make our marriage last 40 or 50 years?
Dear Planning Ahead,
Good for you for thinking about this now. Most people spend... More