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Couple's Net

By Chandrama Anderson

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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i...  (More)

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All This Arguing . . .
Apr 11, 2014 11:41 am
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. . . fighting, disagreeing is actually a primal cry for connection.

We are biologically wired to NEED a secure connection with another adult (defined as: be... More
Dear Chandrama, Everywhere I turn . . .
Apr 21, 2014 8:32 am
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. . . these days there is talk of meditation. My partner is pushing me to take a class. What's the deal?
Stressed

Dear Stressed,
While people have been meditating... More
You Change!
Feb 24, 2014 5:14 pm
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"This relationship is a mess, and I want you to change."

Now look in the mirror and repeat the above statement.

Ouch!

No matter how much we wish we had... More
Marriage last 40 or 50 years?
May 16, 2014 3:53 pm
Comments: 10 | Views: 3,755

What do we need to make our marriage last 40 or 50 years?

Planning Ahead

Dear Planning Ahead,

Good for you for thinking about this now. Most people spend... More
The Year in Review
Dec 30, 2013 1:52 pm
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What one or two things will I do better than I did in 2103 that will make my marriage stronger and healthier and happier?

Let's make a list of ideas here. I'll... More
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