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By Chandrama Anderson

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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i...  (More)

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Neuroplasticity: Ask for a Change
Nov 11, 2013 9:11 am
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I've been writing a lot recently about looking at ourselves and making changes in our own behavior (which is in our scope of influence ). I know some of you are... More
Tips, Experiments, etc.
Nov 7, 2013 7:36 am
Comments: 2 | Views: 19,159

If you're like me, and most people, your first answer to what is missing in your relationship is to look at what your partner is or isn't doing. And it's certainly... More
Go Ahead, Have a Fight
Oct 21, 2013 10:03 am
Comments: 3 | Views: 19,136

Many disagreements come about because we don't understand our partner's intention, and s/he does not anticipate the impact that action or behavior will have on me.... More
In-laws to Love, or In-Laws from Hell?
Oct 17, 2013 8:10 am
Comments: 3 | Views: 18,263

I fell in love today. It was not with my husband (this time). It was with a Macintosh computer. It happened once before; I can barely remember the year – it was... More
Devices are Definitely Not Sexy
Nov 1, 2013 8:52 am
Comments: 2 | Views: 17,774

They may look sexy, but they are a turn-off to your partner. S/he looks over to give you a "Hey, how about it?" look, and you miss it completely because you're looking... More
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Touring the Southern California “Ivies:” Pomona and Cal Tech
By John Raftrey and Lori McCormick | 5 comments | 3,292 views

Couples: Parallel Play or Interactive Play?
By Chandrama Anderson | 0 comments | 1,503 views

Just say no
By Jessica T | 6 comments | 1,463 views

Getting High in Menlo Park
By Paul Bendix | 4 comments | 921 views

As They Head Back To School, Arm Them With This
By Erin Glanville | 4 comments | 423 views