By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Feb 24, 2014 5:14 pm
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"This relationship is a mess, and I want you to change."
Now look in the mirror and repeat the above statement.
No matter how much we wish we had... More
All This Arguing . . .
Apr 11, 2014 11:41 am
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. . . fighting, disagreeing is actually a primal cry for connection.
We are biologically wired to NEED a secure connection with another adult (defined as: be... More
The Year in Review
Dec 30, 2013 1:52 pm
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What one or two things will I do better than I did in 2103 that will make my marriage stronger and healthier and happier?
Let's make a list of ideas here. I'll... More
Let Bakersfield Beat Silicon Valley?
Jun 25, 2014 5:06 pm
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I don't think so!
Do you know someone who has or had cancer? Did you wish there was a cure? Help fund the research that may save your beloved or someone else... More
"Wanting Sex Again"
Jun 4, 2014 3:36 pm
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The question isn't IF we will ever have sexual issues, but when. Just as all relationships require work, so will our sex life. And at times, we may need outside... More