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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)

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Premarital and Couples: Taking Breaks (Fallow Time)
May 22, 2020 1:27 pm
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Fallow, def.: Plowed and harrowed but left unsown for a period in order to restore its fertility . . .

I'm a proponent of taking breaks. The Covid-19 pandemic... More

Sex Talk is Always Part of Couples Counseling . . .
May 15, 2020 7:01 am
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. . . at some point. I find that couples either come to counseling because of sex concerns -- or don't bring up sex at all. If you don't bring it up, I will, in... More

Premarital and Couples: The Resiliency of Bridges
May 8, 2020 6:42 pm
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Lately I've been thinking about the image of healthy couples as being a bridge. Each of you is one foundation on each side of the water. A strong foundation must... More

Couples: Empty Nest
May 1, 2020 10:59 am
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I realize this is an odd topic during Covid-19 while we're sheltering in place and your kids are not launching or maybe have come home for now. And it's still useful.

As... More

Premarital and Couples: Please treat me with . . .
Apr 24, 2020 2:16 pm
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How do you end this sentence? Please treat me with . . .

- kindness
- respect
- gentleness
- curiosity
- desire to understand my intentions (even when I'm... More

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