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By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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“That Sort of Jab Fell Under the Category of Unnecessary Roughness”
Oct 15, 2022 8:18 am
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- Claire Cain
This line jumped out at me from Cain’s novel. I’m not talking about football. Maybe you know what I mean because you are the recipient... More
Oct 15, 2022 8:18 am
Comments: 1 | Views: 7,676
- Claire Cain
This line jumped out at me from Cain’s novel. I’m not talking about football. Maybe you know what I mean because you are the recipient... More
“No, it just explains it.”
Oct 7, 2022 11:29 am
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“I probably saved you from being seriously injured.”
Did he expect her to thank him for that? “So you think that excuses your behavior?”
“No,... More
Oct 7, 2022 11:29 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 7,668
“I probably saved you from being seriously injured.”
Did he expect her to thank him for that? “So you think that excuses your behavior?”
“No,... More
What Do You Get Out of Being Stubborn?
Oct 1, 2022 1:10 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 7,520
Oxford Languages defines stubborn thus: “having or showing dogged determination not to change one's attitude or position on something, especially in spite... More
Oct 1, 2022 1:10 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 7,520
Oxford Languages defines stubborn thus: “having or showing dogged determination not to change one's attitude or position on something, especially in spite... More
How Much Time do You Spend Outdoors?
Sep 24, 2022 10:07 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 7,358
I’ve been spending a lot more time outdoors, walking, exploring and going on adventures. I’ve noticed I feel better physically and emotionally since... More
Sep 24, 2022 10:07 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 7,358
I’ve been spending a lot more time outdoors, walking, exploring and going on adventures. I’ve noticed I feel better physically and emotionally since... More
Where is Your Focus?
Sep 17, 2022 9:41 am
Comments: 2 | Views: 7,712
Readers, please follow along with this exercise:
1. Off the top of your head, jot down the 3-5 immediate answers that popped into your head.
2. Now, look at... More
Sep 17, 2022 9:41 am
Comments: 2 | Views: 7,712
Readers, please follow along with this exercise:
1. Off the top of your head, jot down the 3-5 immediate answers that popped into your head.
2. Now, look at... More
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