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About this blog: A 32-year resident of Menlo Park, I regularly make my way around downtown in a wheelchair. This gives me an unusual perspective on a town in which I have spent almost half of my life. I was educated at UC Berkeley, and permanentl...
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About this blog: A 32-year resident of Menlo Park, I regularly make my way around downtown in a wheelchair. This gives me an unusual perspective on a town in which I have spent almost half of my life. I was educated at UC Berkeley, and permanently injured there in a 1968 mugging. Half paralyzed at 21, it took me 11 years to find full-time work. A high-tech job drew me to the Peninsula in the early 1980s. After years as a high-tech marketing writer, I retired and published my own book, Dance Without Steps (Oliver Press, New York, 2012). Having long aspired to café society, I frequent Peet's on Santa Cruz Avenue. Rolling through our downtown, I reflect on my own life - which I have restarted several times. My wife died in 2009. I remarried in July, 2013.
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On Life's Road With No Car
Uploaded: Oct 25, 2013
At some point most of us will face facts and permanently hang up the car keys. Almanac readers have offered great suggestions about how to safely manage aging and driving.
Still, as an aging person, here's a bad dream: my car breaks down, and I'm stuck at home...for the next 15 years.
This isn't all fantasy. When I am too old to safely drive, will my life be this restricted?
This question haunts many of us in suburbia. What comes after we stop driving?
If it means losing the ability to independently shop, socialize, and stay active...no wonder people resist giving up a car.
Some people stop driving, then move to retirement communities with built-in transportation. But what if you want to stay in your own home and neighborhood?
Please share your thoughts about living in our community without a car. When it's time to stop driving, what will you need to stay active and engaged? What would help most? Better transportation services? Something else?
Democracy.
What is it worth to you?
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